Love Real love is a pilgrimage. It happens when there is no strategy, but it is very rare because most people are strategists. Real love is a pilgrimage. It happens when there is no strategy, but it is very rare because most people are strategists.YOU MAY ALSO LIKE »Accountability in friendship is the equivalent of love without strategy.You can never betray the people who are dead, so you go on being a public Jew; the dead can’t answer slurs, but I’m here. I would love to think that Jesus wants me for a sunbeam, but he doesn’t.The lessons taught in great books are misleading. The commerce in life is rarely so simple and never so just.A complete woman is probably not a very admirable creature. She is manipulative, uses other people to get her own way, and works within whatever system she is in.The essence of romantic love is that wonderful beginning, after which sadness and impossibility may become the rule.It will be a pity if women in the more conventional mould are to be phased out, for there will never be anyone to go home to.